~ Men And Woman ~

A woman is a magnet.

An empathic woman is a magic gravitational pull.

A woman in love with her own feelings is easily loved by men. But a woman in love with other people’s feelings is easily loved by crowds.

People love to be around empaths and are always eager to share space and a piece of heart with them.

It always starts with a sense of a sudden drive to get closer to an empathic person. Her proximity and attention feels pleasant and enticing.

Then a person suddenly finds it’s surprisingly easy and refreshing to talk to empath and tell her about life, long-gone memories and even the things you won’t usually share with others.

Empaths are natural people’s confessors.

But they know that there are always two sides to this medal.

For most people who met an empath, a want of being around that person becomes a need.

And that’s why women with high empathic abilities should be especially careful with the feelings of men around them, because eventually they will start being responsible for them.

Empathic women are accepting, they have a high level of emotional endurance, they don’t judge and they always love to listen.

That brings flows of attention from people that want to be heard, accepted, understood and reassured.

Empaths have an inborn need to love and help people out, and people eagerly come from everywhere.

Empathy is filling the voids in people’s hearts and gives a soothing emotional comfort.

Female empathy has a tremendous magnetism.

Back in the Middle Ages they were being persecuted and accused of witchcraft.

Modern ‘witches’ become opinion leaders, trends creators, or lonely meditative secludes, unable to handle the flow of attention and people’s demands.

There is a plenty of empaths among smiling energetic mothers of the families, low-budget charity workers, super models or successful marketers.

One idea is sure – empathic women have a power to make people accept their opinions, follow them and pay attention to what they propagate – love, certain philosophies, or even the simple benefits of healthy living.

Every empathic woman has an idea that she carries on with her. Physical attraction and eloquence to it help empaths promote their ideas and make people eagerly benefit from them.

Nature sets everything wisely. And a person that has to reach out to people with some favorable ideas will most likely be also gifted with natural attractiveness and a power to persuade, alongside the empathy gift.

We tend to pay more attention to what physically attractive smiling women are selling us and relate more to the beliefs of women that look interested and deep into our eyes.

Apart of what we know sells best, empathy and honest interest in !You! sells even better.

We weren’t eager to buy whatever noble ideas our tired school teachers were offering us, because they didn’t look interested to get us gain from them. Those who did, succeeded and had students falling in love with them and remembering them long after school.

Empathy – is the interest in You.

We all want somebody else to be sincerely interested in us in spite of all our confused feelings and personal dramas being carried on the inside.

What does it feel like when a pleasant empathetic woman seems to care about the soul you are, is actually ready to listen to your truth and won’t give judgment to whatever you have to say?

It feels like stumbling across a hut with light in the windows after a long walk in the woods.

If you have an empathic person in your life, you may feel that it’s almost impossible to let her go. Empath makes any person’s space easy, pleasant and comfortable to be in.

Empathic women don’t work any special magic, empathy is the magic of Nature itself.
Empaths are often selfless and have an insufficient ego drive, which makes room in their souls for a lot more people to fit in.

They have a strongly developed Heart chakra – energy center responsible for feelings and emotions. It works like a pump with them, accumulating big doses of love energy and easily circulating it around.

And if empaths don’t have a chance to share their love with others, they may be feeling down, because the overflowing amount of love energy needs to be shared.

Just think now of how many people around lack love and wish to get just a tiny bit of it in order to feel good, alive and needed.

Now make an abstract math and imagine how many of them get attracted to empathic women and why.

It’s not That particular woman they need, it’s the need to be heard, accepted without judgment, feel present and comforted.

In a company of empath you feel home and you feel safe. It’s as if you suddenly kicked off your formal office suit in the middle of the day, or your long-worn knight armor, and put on your comfy sweats and a pair of woolen slippers.

People feel there is really no need for any psychological defense or behavioral games around the empath. 

If you snap an image of empath’s aura, you may see that it has clean radiations of white and golden lights.

Those energy colors are most delicious to other people’s energies when their energy fields come into interaction.

People who are depressed, unappreciated, carry traumas and sores, radiate energies of heavier darker shades, and so they willingly seek to connect with healing purifying lights.

That’s why empaths are also on top of favorites on energy vampires’ menu.

Resulting from a strong healthy Heart chakra, empath’s main motive in life is Love.

Empath’s love is always reviving, unconditional and selfless.

If a man falls in love with an empathic woman, whether it’s mutual or not, he finds it difficult to ever let her go out of his life, let alone out of his mind.

People always tend to experience strong emotional responses to empaths – and the most common one is extraordinary attraction and a feeling of ‘falling in love’.

Feeling of falling in love with an empath is, however, often a pure projection of one’s innermost feelings for the celebration of them ‘being met’.

Empaths are not new to massive signs of attention, including a ton of inappropriate ones as well.

That’s why it’s not uncommon to see men fist developing utter affection for empathic woman and then turning their feelings into rage and despair. Because even a smallest less empathic move from that woman is often taken as a sign of rejection.

For, empathy is always taken as a Promise.

A promise that this woman will love you, keep nourishing your emotions, keep listening and telling you something reassuring, all the time at first call.

Empath should keep in mind that numerous people confessing of their love, simply vocalize a strong emotional arousal that the empath caused.

Try to prevent people from falling in love with you, whatever odd it sounds.

Empaths do love people and want to help their problems, but sometimes they righteously choose to distance from certain acquaintances, as they feel they start carrying somebody else’s world on their shoulders, and become responsible for someone’s regular ‘counseling’ and well-being.

After bonding with an empath, many people actually stop blaming their lives for unhappiness and start making the empath responsible for their happiness instead.

People take empath’s inborn friendliness and emotional openness as a pledge.

Once empath smiles to someone and shares a pleasant insightful talk, people take it as an oath of empath’s constant emotional availability and a provision of psychological peace.

People can’t fail to feel when a person cares for their feelings. And even the most closed up hearts react. May not openly display it, but they do.

Empathic women are surrounded by men seeking their company and a talk, because those men might not easily trust everyone around, but the empath always gives an instinctive vibe she can be trusted.

That’s why women’s effortless emotional openness often attracts emotionally unavailable men.

Empathic woman will often help her male friends with guidance through their emotional and life issues and then will end up helping them get over herself.

No matter on what broad a range empathic woman spreads her ideas, people always connect with them on a personal level.

And when empathic woman tries to set borders with her male acquaintances, it’s when she starts to get blamed, stalked and even threatened. 

All these are just the tricks of emotional manipulation that desperate people resort to when they feel that the empath is distancing and drifting away.

They will try to use unbelievable incentives and triggers just to keep empath around.

So it is especially vital for women with developed empathy to be careful with their social engagements and borders of familiarity.

Because whenever empathic women meet people with traumas and unmet emotions, they can’t help but responding and indulging into friendly ‘counseling’.

It’s a sort of a mission to help people acquire love, and a curse to be hated for it afterwords.

Empathy is a gift of Nature. And when Nature grants people that gift, it keeps them highly responsible for what they do about it.

People get rewards for their skills and pay high prices for their talents.

Empathic women should keep a steady low profile and never collect hearts for entertainment.

People that have a gift of influencing and leading others, account hard for everything in their life and so do they for lives of other people.

Of course, empathic woman is not responsible for every man who doesn’t leave her alone.

But at the same time she feels responsible for all the people who love her, or simply imagined they do, and is afraid to cut them off and hurt their feelings, even if those relations get inappropriate, obsessive and energy draining.

Empathic woman ‘shelters’ and ‘feeds’ people.

‘Shelter’ is a protective filed of her luminous clean radiations. ‘Food’ is the energy of her mighty unconditional love.

Shelters are not intended to secure anyone forever and unconditional love is too big to be cut off others and directed selfishly.

Empathic women simply Love. They love everyone and there is no differentiation between men, women, cats or trees.

Empathic women can be real men magnet, but so are they the magnet of children, stray animals, heartbroken girlfriends, elderly and unbalanced people.

Everyone may feel particularly special to that empathic woman. While to her, in fact, everyone is truly special.